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Already best-selling authors with How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk, Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish turned their minds to the battle of the siblings. Parents themselves, they were determined to figure out how to help their children get along. The result was Siblings Without Rivalry. This wise, groundbreaking book gives parents the practical tools they need to cope with conflict, encourage cooperation, reduce competition, and make it possible for children to experience the joys of their special relationship. With humor and understanding much gained from raising their own children Faber and Mazlish explain how and when to intervene in fights, provide suggestions on how to help children channel their hostility into creative outlets, and demonstrate how to treat children unequally and still be fair. Updated to incorporate fresh thoughts after years of conducting workshops for parents and professionals, this edition also includes a new afterword.


阿黛尔•法伯(Adele Faber)和伊莱恩•玛兹丽施(Elaine Mazlish),国际著名亲子沟通专家,美国最畅销亲子教育书系作者。

她们是纽约市社会研究新校和长岛大学家庭生活研究所的创建者。《Siblings Without Rivalry》是她们在创办的学校和研究所长期与父母们一起进行实验的研究总结。如今世界上数以千万的父母用自身的实践证明这些方法非常有效。她们除了在美国和加拿大各地频繁演讲外,还经常出现在《早安美国》(Good Morning America)和《欧普拉》(Oprah)等热门电视节目里。

法伯与玛兹丽施都是三位孩子的母亲,她们已被收录于美国名人录。

两位作者的其他亲子教育畅销书:

《如何说孩子才会听,怎么听孩子才肯说》,全球畅销500多万册,被翻译成30多种语言;中文版上市以来126周雄踞各大权威家教榜单前三甲,并荣登当当网终身五星图书榜;

《如何说,孩子才肯学》美国...

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  • いずみ ちあき
    (2018.25) 感觉作为独生子女,之前一直没意识到sibling rivalry原来这么普遍233 和How to talk to kids里cover的沟通方式是一致的,但更加focus在sibling rivalry上;仍然是非常好读,对therapist和家长都很有用。但感觉实际做parenting skill coaching的时候需要思考一下怎么把这两本书和Tuning into kids一起结合起来。07-15
  • GN
    Very useful and practical. Still need to re-read and practice a lot.10-28
  • 皮蛋瘦肉jo
    刚开始不喜欢作者的文笔,纯粹的记录讲座内容。之后恨不得每个案例都记录下来,全是如何有效沟通的干货,即使只有一个小孩也可以用上。案例里这么多大人,多年以后还走不出童年父母无意语言态度上带来的阴影,也不知道是不是太记仇了。07-01
  • 狐梨酱
    特别好。Informative and practical. 印象特别深刻的两点:1、Insisting upon good feelings between the children led to bad feelings. 对于大孩子来说,弟弟妹妹的到来是整个世界都被颠覆了的困难体验。2、To be loved equally is be loved less. To be loved uniquely—for one’s own special self—is to be loved as much as we need to be loved. 在对待多个孩子的时候,看见并欣赏每个孩子的uniqueness是最重要的,特别是不能比较孩子们,不管是赞许的还是贬低的。值得时常重读的一本书07-04
  • yuan
    对多子女家庭来说是本很好的工具书。01-20

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