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In the wake of recent violence our nation has experienced, and the paranoia that has ensued, we've directed our attention to potential terrorists in our midst. Yet our children face more risk from people they know than from terrorists they have never met. An estimated one in five girls and one in ten boys in the United States experience some form of sexual abuse by age eighteen. What could possibly motivate a person to molest a child? Not Monsters documents the stories of nine convicted child molesters through one-on-one interviews, listening to what offenders have to say about their crimes and exploring the roots of these behaviors from a social constructionist perspective. Their words paint a compelling and frightening portrait of how sexual abuse works in Western culture to perpetuate a political and social system of dominance and control.

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  • Champloo.
    归根结底就是把所有人都怪了一遍,除了自己。还觉得自己给了小孩爱和选择,是小孩自己好奇,是小孩自己主动,是小孩自己接受。一直强调自己从来没有强迫过任何人,难道诱导不算是一种强迫吗?而且不恰恰是因为小孩没有辨别能力又没有反抗能力才成为他们的目标吗?何尝来的“两情相悦”。更不要说把已经受过侵犯的孩子当做已损物品,当做更容易的目标。比起犯罪行为,更可怕的是他们好像没有真心意识到自己给小孩子们带来的伤害(有些甚至觉得那些小孩得到了家庭里没有获得的爱?)。大部分人更多是聚焦于自己受到的伤害和社会/他人的失责,将自己的行为合理化再把自己受害者化,只想着自己需要什么什么样的帮助,而根本没去考虑那些真正的受害者的感受。不能说不同情他们童年的遭遇,但他们需要认识到自己已经是加害者了,那些小孩才是真正的受害者。04-14

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